Therapy for when life feels like a dumpster fire — and you’re standing in it.
I specialize in twins, ex-Mormons, and the chaos of dating. My style? Hot Mess Therapy—zero worksheets, lots of real talk. I pull from multiple modalities, podcasts, books, and life itself. Swearing welcome. Healing doesn’t have to be tidy.
Washington based virtual therapist for women 18-50.
You don’t have to have it together to get started.
Let’s be real: life is complicated as hell.
I’m Nancy, a therapist who helps people make sense of their story — especially if that story involves being a twin trying to find your own identity, leaving the Mormon church (or another high-demand religion) and rebuilding from the ground up, or navigating the emotional dumpster fire that is modern dating.
Welcome to Hot Mess Therapy.
It’s not a formal modality (yet), but it’s my real-world approach to healing: grounded in lived experience, informed by clinical wisdom, and enriched by podcasts, books, late-night epiphanies, and conversations that matter. I don’t do worksheets. I do humans.
In our work together, there’s space to swear, cry, laugh, question everything, and take the pressure off "fixing" yourself. You’re not broken — you’re becoming. And I’m here to help you do that in a space that’s bold, affirming, irreverent, and real.
If you're:
A twin who wants to figure out who you are without guilt
An ex-Mormon (or post-faith) human sifting through religious trauma and identity reconstruction
Dating and wondering why this still sucks even though you’re doing “the work”
Or just showing up with your whole messy, brilliant self...
Then I want to work with you.
Because therapy doesn’t have to be polished or perfect. It just has to be real.
Healing doesn’t have to be pretty — just honest.

Contact me today for a free 15 minute consultation to see if we’re a good fit for individual therapy
I’m a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) providing psychotherapy to women residing in WA.
I’m a Washington State approved supervisor for associate level therapists..
You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate of what your services may cost.